In order to understand the ESFP, you must first understand their four main functions.
ESFP Functions
Extraverted Sensing
Extraverted Sensing (Se) is the main function of the ESFP. The ESFP
uses this function to understand and observe the outer world. They take
in the world primarily through their five senses: touch, feel, see,
taste, and hear. The ESFP is constantly scanning their environment. They can easily
size up a situation and see where the strengths and weaknesses are. They
live very much “in the moment” which can upset many other people that
feel the ESFPs life should be more organized. The reality is, the ESFP
is confident in their ability to “go with the flow” and they feel like
they can get themselves out of any potential “trouble” they might get
themselves in.
The ESFP also likes to “push their limits” to see just how far away
they can get with something. The ESFP is a type to have the philosophy
“it’s easier to say sorry, than it is to get permission.” And because of
their curious nature, they are constantly apolozing for their actions.
But they have enough charm to keep most people from being mad at them
for very long.
Introverted Feeling
The second function of the ESFP is Introverted Feeling (Fi).
Introverted Feeling tends to be developed as the ESFP hits their
mid-teen age. The ESFP can begin to introspect and reflect on feelings
and their own personal values toward people and institutions. The ESFP
can develop a strong sense of “right and wrong” that they believe is
important to them. They can hold steady to believes and friendships that
are close to them. The ESFP can develop loyalty and a sense of
“purpose” for their life. The ESFPs nature to “do first, think later”
can cause them to do things that might violate their Introverted
Feeling. This can cause them to feel bad later and possibly regret some
of their actions.